Frequently Asked Questions

Why was Friendometry established?

Childhood loneliness has life-long consequences. Children who do not have friends are at higher risk for anxiety and depression as they get older which can lead to life-long emotional struggles. Even having just one friend can be a lifesaver that can result in higher self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-worth. There are currently millions of children who do not have friends. There are lots of resources for social skill development, but there are no other online matching options for our children. Friendometry emphasizes safety and was designed strictly for parents to ensure the parent feels secure with the matching and communication process.

What is Friendometry?

Friendometry is a place online where parents can go to meet/find other parents who are seeking friends for their children that are in their geographical area. The children on this website generally have had some difficulty either making or keeping friends for one reason or another. However, all parents are welcome to join if they are seeking friendships for their children.

Friendometry works similar to a dating website, except that it is matchmaking for friends, not for dating. Children are not allowed on the site; it is only for parents.

How much does Friendometry cost?

Friendometry charges an annual fee of $24.99 for unlimited access. A portion of the fee goes back into marketing to increase the number of parents in your area who are seeking friends for their children.

For the price of 4 cups of coffee, you have the chance to change your child’s life forever. It is worth the price of $24.99

How do I create a profile for my child?

Creating a profile is simple and quick:

1. Visit https://friendometry.com/ .
2. Click “Get Started Now” or “Register” in the top menu.
3. Fill out your details and your child’s profile.
4. Add your payment information for the annual membership.
5. Start searching for families in your area to connect!

How can I use Friendometry to find a friend for my child?

1. Start by signing up and filling out your child’s profile, so that other parents can find you to see if their child is a good match for yours!

2. Next, type in your location and browse parent’s profiles of their children in your area to see if the right friend is there waiting for your child. All communications are parent to parent for safety and security.

—> If you don’t find someone during your search who might be a good fit, then log out and come later to try again

3. Start finding your child a friendship by sending a message or a friendship request to another parent. You may also start receiving messages.

4. Use the Friendometry messaging system to see if both parents want to move forward with a get-together.

Once you start the friendship by meeting in person, you might exchange contact information or connect on a social network.

Your child is now one step closer to benefiting from the joys of friendship!

Even after you have made a friend connection, it is a good idea to keep your child’s profile on Friendometry to benefit from other potential friend connections.

Any tips for success with finding new friends?

Yes! 5 tips:

Complete your profile. Give other members an idea of what your child is like.

Share as much detail in the profile as you feel comfortable. Keep in mind that your child’s identify is private until you choose otherwise and take the friendship “offline”. The comfort of privacy is in your control. You do not have to exchange personal contact information such as names, etc. until you want to. This is very important for parents.

Be patient. If the right friend isn’t signed up yet in your area, wait and check again later. New members are signing up every day, so don’t give up!

Be proactive. Search for friends using the browse and search tools. Send messages and start the friendship connection. It’s the fastest way to start making new friends for your child.

Safety is our priority! Other than helping you find a friend for your child as our main objective, we want you as a parent to feel safe and secure in the process. You must review and follow our safety guidelines and use common sense when meeting new people. Once you have created an account, there are more specific safety tips and get together tips for planning your in-person connections.

Why are parents using Friendometry?

For various reasons, millions of children have difficulty making friends. Parents are using Friendometry to meet other parents in their area whose children are also having difficulty making friends.

Research is clear that children need more than “online” friends and having “in person” friendships improves child development.

It is very acceptable and it is main stay that adults are finding relationships online. It is time to extend the benefits to children and use technology to its’ fullest to combat childhood loneliness.

What kind of people are on Friendometry?

All kinds!

Friendometry members are parents of children (ages 3-17) who have difficulty finding, making, or keeping friends for various reasons. Some of the reasons are shyness or anxiety about interactions, social awkwardness, being quirky, or just not having the right fit.

Is Friendometry safe for my child?

Yes, Friendometry prioritizes your child’s safety at every step. The platform is strictly for parents, which means children cannot access it directly. Only verified adults are allowed to create accounts and communicate with other parents, ensuring a secure, controlled, and parent-supervised environment. All interactions happen parent-to-parent, and no personal information is shared until you decide to connect offline.

Friendometry was built to provide peace of mind for parents while creating opportunities for children to build meaningful, safe friendship

What if there are no families in my area yet?

If there are no families in your area when you sign up, don’t worry—Friendometry is constantly growing! By staying signed up, your profile remains visible to new families who join the platform. Friendometry also actively performs targeted marketing to attract parents in your location, increasing the number of connections you can make.

The more parents who sign up, the higher the chances of finding the perfect match for your child. Remember, every new member brings us one step closer to reducing childhood loneliness together.

Can I use Friendometry for free before subscribing?

Yes! You can explore Friendometry for free by using the Free Code: Admin during registration. This code allows you to experience the platform, browse profiles, and see how Friendometry works before committing to the annual membership.

Our free trial gives you the opportunity to fully understand the platform’s benefits so you can make an informed decision about helping your child find meaningful friendships.

Why is making friends important for my child?

Friendships are essential to a child’s emotional and social development. Research has shown that children without friends face higher risks of anxiety, depression, and low self-esteem, which can have long-term effects on their well-being. Even having just one good friend can:

• Boost self-confidence and self-worth.
• Protect against mood problems and feelings of isolation.
• Improve communication and social skills.

Friendometry helps parents address this critical need by connecting families and creating opportunities for children to form meaningful, in-person friendships. By fostering these connections, you can provide your child with emotional support and experiences that will positively impact their future.

How do I search for friends in my area?

Finding a friend for your child is simple and convenient with Friendometry’s intuitive tools:

• Register and log in to your account.
• Click on the “Search for a Friend” option in the top menu.
• You can type the geographical location, age group, and shared interests to narrow your search.
• Browse through parent profiles and child details to find a family that seems like a great match.
• Send a connection request or a message to start the friendship process.

Once both parents are comfortable, you can arrange an offline meetup or activity for your children to start building a connection.

What makes Friendometry different from other platforms?

Friendometry is not a typical social media site—it’s a purpose-driven platform created exclusively for parents to find meaningful friendships for their children. Here’s what sets us apart:

• Parent-to-Parent Communication: Children are not on the platform. All interactions are parent-supervised, ensuring a safe and secure experience.
• Focused on Safety: Only verified adults can join, and no private information is shared without your consent.
• Research-Driven Purpose: Friendometry addresses the real emotional and psychological needs of children who struggle with friendships, helping families combat loneliness in a thoughtful and effective way.
• Geographical Matching: Our platform connects parents based on location to encourage in-person friendships for children.

Friendometry is designed to create a supportive, family-friendly space where you can prioritize your child’s happiness and emotional health.

What happens after I send a connection request?

Once you send a connection request to another parent, they will receive a notification. If they accept your request, you can start communicating securely through Friendometry’s private messaging system. This is an opportunity to:

• Share details about your child’s interests and personality.
• Discuss mutual expectations for playdates or meetups.
• Plan an initial, parent-supervised activity to help your children get to know each other.

Friendometry provides a safe and comfortable space for parents to build trust before taking friendships offline. By working together, you can help your children develop meaningful connections.

Is Friendometry available internationally?

Yes, Friendometry is available worldwide! Parents from any country can join the platform and start finding friends for their children. We connect families based on their geographical location, making it easy to identify potential matches nearby, no matter where you live. As Friendometry continues to grow, we aim to create a global community of parents who are united in helping their children build lifelong friendships.

How do I cancel my subscription?

You can cancel your subscription anytime by visiting your account settings. However, we recommend staying signed up so other parents can find you, especially if they join after you. This increases the chances of building connections for your child.

How do you ensure parents are genuine users?

Friendometry takes safety and trust very seriously. We require all users to register with a verified email address, ensuring that only genuine, adult users can access the platform. Additionally, since Friendometry is strictly for parents, children cannot create accounts or directly communicate with others.

This parent-only approach ensures a safe, secure, and trustworthy environment where families can focus on building meaningful friendships.

Can Friendometry help shy or socially anxious children?

Absolutely! Friendometry is especially helpful for children who are shy, socially anxious, or struggle with making friends. By allowing parents to connect first, the platform provides a low-pressure environment for children to meet new friends under their parent’s guidance. This approach:

• Reduces anxiety by creating a controlled, parent-supervised introduction.
• Encourages gradual, comfortable social interactions.
• Helps children build confidence and ease into friendships at their own pace.

Friendometry supports families in creating positive social experiences that can help shy or anxious children thrive.

How can I encourage more families to join Friendometry?

The more families that join Friendometry, the easier it is for everyone to find friends for their children. You can help spread the word by:

• Sharing your positive experience with other parents.
• Telling friends, family, or members of parent groups about Friendometry.
• Promoting the platform in local communities, schools, or social media.

By working together, we can grow Friendometry into a thriving community that connects families and combats childhood loneliness worldwide.

Can I update my child’s profile after registration?

Absolutely! You can update your child’s profile at any time by logging into your account > Profile > Edit. Whether it’s changing interests, updating hobbies, or adding new details, an updated profile ensures your family has the best chance of connecting with others who share similar values and interests. Keeping your profile current makes it easier for other families to find and connect with you.

What kind of families use Friendometry?

Friendometry is designed for all families seeking friendships for their children. Whether you’ve recently moved to a new area, homeschool your child, or your child is having difficulty making friends at school, Friendometry helps parents connect with like-minded families. Families of all backgrounds and lifestyles use the platform to support their children in building strong, meaningful friendships.

How quickly can I find a match?

The time it takes to find a match depends on the number of families currently in your area. Friendometry is growing every day, and we actively perform targeted outreach to attract new families to the platform. By setting up your profile early and staying signed up, you maximize the chances of other parents finding you as they join. The sooner your profile is live, the sooner you’ll be able to connect with families nearby.

What age groups does Friendometry support?

Friendometry is perfect for children of all school ages (3-17)—from elementary school to middle school and high school. Whether your child is just beginning their social journey or navigating the complexities of teenage friendships, Friendometry helps families connect based on shared values, interests, and proximity. No matter your child’s age, the platform offers opportunities to form friendships that are meaningful and lasting.

How can Friendometry benefit my family?

Friendometry is more than just a platform—it’s a solution for parents looking to address the challenges of childhood loneliness. By helping you find other families in your area, Friendometry:

• Supports your child’s emotional well-being by fostering meaningful friendships.
• Reduces social isolation for children and parents alike.
• Builds confidence and self-worth through carefully curated connections.

Friendometry empowers families to create supportive, real-world relationships that can positively impact your child’s happiness, emotional growth, and social development.